I not only lost my hair, I lost my confidence, my self-esteem, my identity and my feminity. I stopped taking care over my appearance which in turn I use to worry people would think she’s let herself go. I started to hide in the background and not want to go out. My whole life changed I was grieving and very low. I did not know one person who was going through what I was and unlike now, there was no Internet. So I felt very alone.
I was a nurse and could pile my hair up and cover the thinness under a hat. But the dreaded day came when nurses stopped wearing hats… Sensible yes but not for me and panic set in. Like many others I expect, I tried every pill and potion I could get my hands on and spent a fortune on trying them all. I went to Private clinics had some very odd treatments and parted with a lot of money and only had a sore head to show for it.
I started that awful process of grieving. I stayed in most of the time slapping some concoction on my head, hanging upside down wrapped in clingfilm until one day I decided to go to a very well respected GP I knew and what he said to me 25 years on I will never forget. Sarah, he said ” You are a very sensible person, stop wasting your money, buy a wig and get on with living your life” harsh I thought but I trusted him and so that’s what I did.
I lost my hair 11 and a half years ago to breast cancer.i was fine .i got a great wig.know i got diagnose with metastatic breast cancer and even though the quemo it is not like the first time, i m still loosing my hair. It is not as easy as then.i look at wigs,i said i will wait.maybe thinking maybe not all will fall .i guess im in denial.every time i brush it ,wash it i feel down.its so hard.
Oh Sarah you are a breath of fresh hair! I have been struggling with my hair loss journey and I too have turned to Simplywigs who are simply marvellous, you made me laugh about your wig turning round and the lady not finding your face! You are so right about humour helping us get through it and it was a lovely inspiring story. Thank you so much and your gran sounds like she was a very remarkable woman who helped you face it. Xxx
A really aggressive cancer 6yrs ago started my wig journey, tho my hair had been shedding for a long time b4 it’s discovery. Other health issues have been really getting me down & i realized , after Sarahs story, that i too have been ‘letting myself go’lately.So i think it’s time i washed a couple of my wigs(yep,i have loads,never found’the one’)Put some slap on & a mask and braved the supermarket.I think some new make up might be in order too,as my tiny bit of hair’s gone from chesnut to silver.Before i got so down,i’d embraced the silver-surfer look(great!) but hadn’t changed the make-up.Think some advice may be needed.Thanx Sarah, for giving me the push.
I am 69 and since discovering Simply Wigs a few years ago, I am the happiest I have ever been. I adore my wigs, never miss having my own hair and have honestly never had a problem in strong winds. No more daily washing and styling, no more loads of hair products, no hair spray and, no hairdryer. What’s not to love.
Absolutely agree with you. There are people who are far worse off. But sometimes it does get to you.
I also don’t have a bad hair day, can be a bit dodgy on a windy day ?
Sarah, you are a wonderful and inspiring lady. Yes, you are so right in saying that laughter helps. You need to keep your sense of humour. I’ve worn wigs for 24 years now due to alopecia and it still upsets me some days quietly on my own! However I will not allow self pity as when I look around at what others are enduring, I realise how ‘lucky’ I am. And..I never have a bad hair day! xx
I too went to Harrods for my first wig 35 years ago and know exactly how you felt. I am now 76 still hope my hair will grow. Unless you wear a wig no one knows how it feels. All my friends know, but I do have moments when it’s very windy and I say to my friends ‘I’d better hang on to my hat’.
Angela Cook