A Message To All Undecided New Wig Wearers

A Message To All Undecided New Wig Wearers

This is a message to all undecided new wig wearers. My wig adventure began in 2005, in America, with a second battle against cancer. Before that, at the age of 53, I had already had a mastectomy and, eighteen months after that, a lumpectomy.

Now, 17 years on, ovarian cancer reared its ugly head, requiring long-term chemotherapy with a cocktail of drugs including the invasive carboplatin. I was advised to cut my hair because I would wake on the 17th day after treatment to find it scattered over the pillow – a traumatic experience, for sure. And so it was indeed.

Wig Culture In America

However, my body hair, eyebrows, lashes, nails, and also my hearing went too, and since a completely hairless individual is a strange sight for many people to take in, I decided to invest in a wig and meet this challenge head-on, so to speak. It was one of the best things I have ever done. There can be few morale-boosters equal to walking through a busy hospital and hearing one of the staff call out, “nice hair!” Or being stopped in the street and told,

“Your hair looks fabulous, have you just come from the salon?” If you choose to wear a wig be prepared for this to happen to you too, and often! In America, wearing a wig is trendy and looked upon as a fun way of life, but it’s possible to become so addicted that it turns into an obsession. A peek into some people’s closets will reveal shelves full of beautiful pieces on their stands, arranged in perfect order and colour range, as you would a rack of dresses. Apparently, it’s an incredible feeling to step out each morning looking totally different from the way you looked yesterday.

Such interest and demand mean that a wig boutique may be found on the majority of larger shopping plazas, and it’s a lovely way to spend a leisurely morning finding out which is the look for you, and viewing the vast range of colours for real instead of having to rely on photographs. That said, we are all indebted to the wonderful team at Simply Wigs for their dedication and constant support in helping us over these hurdles; also to the large community of wig wearers out there, whose gorgeous selfies and informative articles are such an inspiration.

Wig Advice From A Wig Wearer

After 21 years the ovarian cancer has re-surfaced, a difficult fact to process, and I’m once again on carboplatin in the certain knowledge that, although my body has has never reappeared, what little of my scrubby eyebrows and other sparse attributes did re-grow will no be finished off for good. Time then for a super new look via a super new wig, and a super new surge of confidence as the result!

Ignore the cynics who try to tell you that a wig is hot, itchy, uncomfortable, and looks like a mat. Modern wigs are delightful, light and airy, easy to wear, and sensation looking. The colours are divine! A close inspection of the strands throws up an astonishingly wide range, from white through orange, and gold to black, and every shade in-between. We all know of women who will happily spend hundreds of pounds (and as many hours)

at the hairdresser’s trying to capture the subtle tints and tones that are found in even the most basic wig, and of course they fail because such minute variations cannot be copied. Factor in today’s dedication to precise fit (though how I would love to see more offerings in a petite size!) and you have everything you need to look stunning. The benefits of a wig are threefold, or at the very least four (if you count the fact that it will last for many years if well cared for):

  • No further need for messy hair dyes and chemicals in an effort to stave off the dreaded grey or rapid re-growth of a white parting.
  • The cost of a good cut, shampoo and blow dry can often equal the price of a wig in the more affordable range, so money saved from a couple of visits to the salon will purchase an amazing new look that won’t grow out after a month or so.
  • Forget the fear of bad weather – your wig will not droop and sulk in the rain, nor frizz up when it’s hot and humid.

Finally, if you are still hesitating over whether or not to join the wig wearing community, I urge you not waste another moment and just go for it! Take your beautiful new piece out of its box, give it a good couple of shakes, put it on firmly, tease it up a bit with your fingers and away you go. Get ready for the compliments and never, ever have another bad hair day. I wish you the joy I have had from my own wig wearing happy years, plus all the good health in the world to go with it.

Love from, Mary xx

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5 thoughts on “A Message To All Undecided New Wig Wearers

  1. You look beautiful Mary! And you are an inspiration to those of us who have hair loss.
    Prayers for you as you recover.???

  2. You are an inspiration and you look fabulous. Welldone, brave lady.

  3. I have worn a wig for over 57 years as a young women in my 20’s it was devastating to loose a lot of my hair
    It was hereditary, my father and his sister lost a lot of there hair by the time they were 25 and the doctor without knowing said I take after a female side of my fathers family,
    wigs were not as nice as they are now, but it has always been great to wear one
    , I wear an older one if I go swimming and have a nice dry one to wear when I dry
    The compliments I get are amazing, but I do mention it’s a wig so people with chemotherapy or other hair loss can see that it’s like glasses if you can’t see you wear glasses, if you haven’t much hair you wear a wig.
    Simply wigs have been great and I always look and feel good in my wig, first thing I put on in the morning and last thing I take off at night, keep a newer one for going out and wear one that’s a bit worn for cooking etc
    I am so used to wearing a wig It’s part of getting dressed
    Thank you Simply wigs, at 85 my hair looks great always wear man made fibre, so much easier to. Wash and style

  4. What a lovely lady you must be,
    You have gone though such bad times. You look wonderful in your wigs,
    Thankyou for your inspiration.
    X

  5. Mary, you are an inspiration.

    Thank you for taking the time to share your story.
    Your positive and sparkling personality just shines through your words.

    I really appreciate your encouragement.

    Wendy xx


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